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Second, it was what Sam said…To say that Carly used Jake to get what she wanted, was a line that is almost laughable coming for HER!!

So while I give Sam due and even understand her emotions, the fact that she seems to forget her own crap is crazy!!

I’m sorry but if someone is using a painful experience to manipulate the person you love (who by the way loves you back) you have have every right to put the kibosh on it! Sam lived through that pain with Jason, she was the one who was there for him NOT Carly. SAM is the one who helped Jason find his way through the dark and gave him what he needed. So if Carly is using it to manipulate him SAM has EVERY RIGHT to say it’s wrong and call her on it.

Please don’t take this the wrong way but, some really need to let go of what Sam did 4 years ago when viewing scenes like this. I’m not saying that that some have to forgive or forget, that is up to them. But in the context of the story, both Jason and Liz have forgiven and moved on, which DOES give Sam the right to tell Carly off for using Jake to make Jason help her. In the context of the story, it is and was Sam’s business.

And Sam HAS NOT forgotten her own crap.

Haven’t you ever made a mistake that you were deeply regretful about and voiced said regret and then watched some do a similar thing to you or someone you loved and went “H3ll No”? Or saw someone heading down that path and tried to throw up a stop sign? It’s called growth, and my friend, Sam HAS grown.

How many times have we heard her say that she doesn’t want to make the same mistakes? How many times has she voiced how painful that period was for her and Jason, even Liz?

Good morning WA.

While I agree that as long as Jason has forgiven Sam, that should be enough. And I also agree Sam has said how sorry she is many times.
I feel the same about Liz. While her mistake was 2 years ago, not 4, she too has said how sorry she is and Lucky has forgiven both her and Nic.

I guess people forgive who they like and won’t let it drop on the people they don’t.

Top’o’da Morn’n Rans!

I get that, it has taken me almost 2 years to forgive Liz, but I think it took me so long as she stayed under the bus a lot longer than Sam did IMO. As shortly after the affair she decided that NOW she wanted Lucky and then when Nik was moving on all of the sudden she wanted him and yadda,yadda, yadda. But still, I forgave and moved on.

Prime example right now is I wanna beat the living p!ss outta Jax, but I once wanted to jump him >). And I am sure I will go back to wanting to jump him again soon enough. *)

I guess it’s because I am a GH FF, Jasam and Sam fan 2nd, so I watch the show for the most part without any skewed perceptions. I try and see things from the characters perspective and then my own overall views. I know I sometimes bring up Liz’s wrong doings, but I try to do it during discussions about Liz or when Liz is being compared to Sam, as both these woman have put children in danger at some point. Yet one is never to be forgiven and the other it was completely forgotten (as an example). Yet both did it at a time in their lives where they were at their lowest, and not thinking clearly. (not to excuse either of them)

So when Sam went after Ethan, I wasn’t mad at her (even though I love him too), because SHE believed that Ethan hurt her sister.

When she “hired” Abby for Michael, I wasn’t too mad at her as I knew she was only trying to help him, BUT thought it was not the best laid out plan. But I still wasn’t outraged.

When she watched Jake get kidnapped, I understood her pain, but I still wanted to throttle her!

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